Echte versus schijnverantwoordelijkheid

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The term misbehavior is almost exclusively applied to children–seldom to adults, friends, spouses. Have you ever overheard someone say, “My husband misbehaved yesterday,”? ...Children don’t misbehave. Their behaviors are simply actions they have chosen to meet important needs...Don’t interpret that children are trying to do something to you — they are only trying to do something for themselves. And this does not make them bad children or misbehaving children. But it may cause you a problem.

Dr. Thomas Gordon